Whenever I go out, I like to spend a decent amount of time on the dance floor in clubs, or a bar with a good dj. I’m pretty good at dancing, and whenever I go out I get a good amount of attention from it. I’ll get guys dapping me up, and I’ll get girls that will consistently bump into me, and flip their hair at me. However, they’re usually with friends and not looking directly at me, typically they’re always facing away from me and backing towards me, while also not just twerking on me. Typically I face away from them as well because I don’t want to just start grinding on a random chick, who I only think might be into me. Is this a mistake? Should I always face them?

My question is, how do I initiate a move on a girl that isn’t just, start grinding on them(don’t want to get slapped) or an awkward tap on the shoulder.

Do you have a go-to move to pull on a girl who you think is interested in you in a dance floor setting?

Maybe im just super overthinking it and terrified of women, but I can’t help but feel like im wasting lot of potential here.

TLDR; I can dance, can’t transfer it to getting women.