Dancefloor openers

recyclablebanthas · 2018-12-18T14:25:17+00:00

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Everytime I go to a club I see some girls looking at me and even some groups of girls getting near my group of friends for a long time. I know this is a sign of interest, but I never know how to approach them in the club situation.

Girls looking at you could mean a lot of things......Her looking might be her looking at someone behind you or just looking because you're looking. Similarly, her being near your friends might be nothing at all, also. Clubs are often packed and they might have been there out of convenience.

You're going to be better off if you stop looking for "signs of interest," or whatever and just start interacting with girls.

You only get the real signs of interest from girls, in response to physical escalation. If she's responding with positive feedback to physical escalation, THAT is a sign.

And specifically, you're better off shifting from looking for "signs," to interacting with a focus on paying attention to the girls and all the feedback they're giving off.

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I am a relatively good dancer and I know that if I am going to pick up girls at the dancefloor, I'll have to dance with them, but I just don't know how to open and what to say.

This question comes up every few weeks. (Seriously, search Seddit. There are tons of "How do I open girls in a club? posts.) You're in a club. A place dominated by loud music and the non-verbal activity of dancing.

You don't need to open with words and it's usually better if you don't. The whole place is about non-verbal communication. Gestures, eye contact, facial expressions, dancing..... Those. are. your. openers.

Not words.

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I am thinking I should open with "I think you're pretty and I want you to come dance with me". Any tips?

You don't find the best and most fun people by sifting through anyone who's NOT dancing.

You go to the dance floor on your own, taking care of your own fun, on your own. And you open people there, non-verbally.

beastmodeMag · 2018-12-18T14:31:58+00:00

On the dance for it would work better if you just go up to them and start dancing in front of them with confidence. Being social aware is important when doing this. Do not go and dance in front of a group of girls that is not dance. If you see her dancing just get in her eye sight distance and dance. If she is a out going person she will start dancing with you. Asking her to dance is more polite, its better if you just do it with confidence and not ask. Sometimes she might reject you sometimes she might not. Most girls are willing to dances if they have high energy.

Also what works great on the dance for is if a popular song comes on that everyone knows you can start singing it with her. For example if chris brown - run it comes on. Just start singing with her " Is ya man on the floor? If he ain't, lemme know.Let me see if you can run it, run it, girl indeed I can run it, run it ". This also works best if the girl is already singing the song with her friends. I hope this helps.

Title	Dancefloor openers
Author	theultimatereposter
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	December 18, 2018 2:02 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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