Plain and simple really. I can't do it and if I am not in a foolish drunken state I don't try even if I have the chance with a girl. I am rigged and awkward. A while back I used to have a go but I saw girls face just fall. I don't know if I had a chance before hand exactly but I can't help feeling perhaps if I could have a half decent way of dancing maybe things could be better for me. It's not my scene it's not how I enjoy my nights out. I don't enjoy most of the music but not being able to has definitely hurt my chances in the past. I'm the type of person who goes to a nightclub and clings to the smoking area and I don't even smoke. Any advice on how to get some basic social dancing skills.