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[–]Falcons07 7 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You have a solid position, made a strong first impression on both of them. And if they both know each other its even better for you.
Just dont come across as a guy who just wants to get in their pants and you Golden.
Just be friends with both of them, dont Rush it, take your time. Dont just Focus on the girl 1. The more her friend likes you the better it is for you. My God trust me. Its a very powerful move if you can come across as a cool guy with her friend.
Just take it cool. You can go on a few dates with the 2nd one. They probably already know you are into the first girl. Come across as a Chill, cool Dude that is used to contact with women and is not just interested in sex. She will tell her friend everything about you.
After she ends her travel hit the first girl up. Take it slow too. Escalate when you both feel the vibe.
Remember you are in a really SOLID spot. Good strong first impression can trump everything else. Now just be yourself, make good friends with them, dont be needy, add cool stories on your instagram and you are Golden. Good luck
[–]ortsnom 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Thanks I appreciate that. It was interesting being out with girl 2 and feeling like I don't need to escalate or game and just have fun. Definitely felt more like she was gaming me at the end.
I've just never been on dates where I'm not escalating and I keep finding myself not being as physical or suggestive because that's how I usually am on casual dates.
Q: if these two didn't know each other, I would be very intimate with girl 2. Do people advise that I don't get physical with 2 if I want to go far with girl 1? Alternative suggestions are welcome
[–]Falcons07 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dates where you are not trying to Focus on escalating, being physical or seductive are the best ones you could ever have. When you forget about all this bullshit you can finally be relaxed, feel the vibe, relate, spend quality time, and most importantly - be yourself. That's the man most of the women dream of. Its the dream kind of date. Do you feel the difference? There was no pressure at all and the date was great. Everyone being themselves.
As you can See, in the end of that date the 2nd girl was the one gaming you. Women dream about that kind of men, and dates generally.
Q2: You know, things might still not go the way you planned with the first girl, so why not just have fun and take your chances with the other one?
Dont Let the Shadow of the first one blind you. It seems like you have a really good time with eachother and she's also quite attractive as you said. That kind of relationship is something very rare. For sure go for it. It could be an interesting story and experience for you.
By the way, looking at the way of how confident the first one was while talking with you, there is a very high chance she has a boyfriend or someone else in her mind already. Ive experienced that kind of girls tons of times before and I can already tell just simply from that behavior.
Long story short, go for it. That second girl might be the one you will spend the rest of your time with. And it could be something amazing, definitely worthwhile. Both of you are real and being yourself. Be aware. Dont Let the butferflies hit you. Dont Let the first girl blind you.
[–]ortsnom 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Couple of things here. I know for sure that both are recently single. And while girl 2 was fun to hang out with, there are a few things about her that I know I wouldn't want to seriously date her. I feel like I can get with her if I start becoming impatient but after your comments and thinking about it, I should just go out and have fun with other chicks and try to catch girl 1 when she's back.
I know girl 2 is going to talk to girl 1 about me. I originally thought maybe I could parlay this into a threesome but in the meantime I'm not going to stuck with EITHER of these two and just keep doing what I'm doing. It'll work itself out in a week or two.
[–]Falcons07 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's the right attitude. Dont get too Focused about them. Just do your stuff and live your life.
ALSO, very important, it is super hard to find a perfect match. Just neglecting a cool ass girl because you didn't like a few things about her could be a very destructive behavior for you. You will have a hard time trying to find the right one. Every single one girl has flaws. ALL of them.
However, if you are not feeling it, its always better to just go with the flow. Just dont forget that every kind of girl has some flaws. Good luck Dude, wish you the best!
[–]ortsnom 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks my man. Appreciate your comments today
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