So my game is pretty good, except for one aspect... My voice.

I naturally have a deep voice. I used to be really shy in middle school and beginning of high school. In elementary school I had to have private speech lessons because I was so bad with pronunciations. Because of all of these things, I've grown (now 20) to become aware of these flaws and it's my biggest insecurity.

Now, I'm an attractive dude. I have plenty of friends and talk to a ton of people now a days. People always ask how do I seem to know everyone at my school (large University).

But when it comes to speaking to women, I can only talk for a short period of time. Typically, I'll be at a bar, a club, a party, or just in a setting where it's loud. So I have to keep my voice raised. And when I talk for more than an hour like that I lose my voice. It becomes raspy, low, and it gets really hard to speak up. And that's not attractive.

So when I talk to women, I usually try to speak long enough where I can ask them if you want to go somewhere more quiet to talk. But that doesn't always work, for instance at a party you don't want to leave because she might like to dance..

Anyone know how to deal with a weak voice?