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[–]Few-General5990 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Personally I limit the amount I respond immediately. Even if my phone is in my hand. I switch of read receipts.
Cut down on the long messages.
Let her hang overnight too.
In a nutshell - Don’t be too available.
[–]Weird-Concentrate922 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Yea that makes sense. What’s crazy is that I’m actually a really busy guy lol. I just don’t like leaving people hanging for hours as I used to get in trouble for it.
[–]Few-General5990 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
There’s a middle ground for sure.
You’ll come of as needy if you reply immediately, leave it too long she gets pissed.
[–]Weird-Concentrate922 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I feel like she has gotten use to how quick I respond that she feels like can leave pick up whenever she wants tbh.
She is definitely going to be a bit annoyed if I leave it for over 4 hrs at this point but fuck it. Shit probably even an hour.
[–]Few-General5990 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
“I was busy”
[–]Weird-Concentrate922 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol it’s gonna make her mad but I love it.
[–]Few-General5990 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she’s not responded to you, then maybe just leave it a while and indeed then check in for the date
(If she complains)
You noticing how quick I am responding to you even though I’m literally in a meeting… it’s the expectation of my workplace to be in contact like this lol.
I was playing chess :)
[–]Scraft995 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Very far from what could be true but she could be testing your neediness. She could also just be bored to answer. I have done that too!
[–]Weird-Concentrate922 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Like the conversation is boring?
[–]Scraft995 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No, like being sleepy and just letting the phone rest when she just read the text. Doesn't mean it's a boring Convo. (If it was night)
[–]Weird-Concentrate922 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is most likely the case tbh, but she usually responds to me at certain times in the day lol and she missed her two typical times.
[–]Scraft995 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well people have lives so she could be doing something and just not being able to answer to you at those times. I don't think se is just going to ghost you out of the blue. She is gonna answer at the time given.
[–]doxisun -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Set the date and no more texting until the day
[–]wany232 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
ignore all the other comments here, Just don't respond hit her up until Sat morning/ early afternoon and just text her with the location and tell her what time to be there. If she does text you before just be mad dry. girls arent complicated, odds are she's doing the same thing your doing, but just talking to her friends. Just go ghost untill Saturday and just text her where and what time to be there
That’s 10 days from now
[–]wany232 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So? you don't need to talk every day. Just respond if she reaches out. Why should you do all the work?
You're on Reddit asking about her and she's probably chilling cause it's a shit test. Stop caring,
trust me bro
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