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[–]CocoBabeNYC 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If you are getting flakes, fake numbers or no responses it means you are doing something wrong during the approach itself. You may have a pleasant interaction, but it's like women who go on a date and say he is nice, but there was no spark. It means she didn't find you disgusting but you also didn't spark any arousal in her.
The usual cause of this is making excuses, not approaching confidently, being too stiff and nervous or being too obvious about picking her up. Remember, the first thing women need from men is safety and protection. So a guy who is afraid of his own shadow and apologizes for approaching will not stir feelings of arousal in her. Because if such a man can't even express his interest in a woman directly, he doesn't stand a chance against fighting off male competitors.
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[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think the word "confidence" means what you think it means.
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