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[–]mickturner96 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
To be honest bro I don't think you did anything wrong.
I don't think it's you, I think it's her so don't worry too much about what you said as you didn't really get rejected as you are both still seeing eachother even if it is unofficial.
Sounds like she doesn't want to commit to the relationship. I'm not going to speculate about that.
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[–]galacticsupernova -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m inclined to think you should just enjoy yourself until it’s no longer enjoyable.
[–]mickturner96 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just chill and enjoy it.
Who know how it will go in the long term so just enjoy what you have in the moment.
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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Never do it again ma dude
How to regain attraction - leave her alone and let her come to you. But dont jump through the hoops when she comes..
[–]b_a_d_r0b0t 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No
[–]galacticsupernova 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Option 1: say something next meet and end up with her or lose her (and it does seem more likely you’ll lose her given her previous answer and the “out of your league”)
Option 2: don’t say anything yet and have more time with her.
If you can’t stand to lose her company yet don’t risk it. Don’t heartbreak yourself. When I was in the similar position there came a certain point where I preferred that ultimatum. Don’t put to her as an ultimatum, just know what you’re risking by getting into serious talk instead of enjoying the date.
[–]66VALHALLA66 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You went on 3 dates across 3 months?
[–]MrLovingTiger 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude you're too attached to this girl. Let her go.
That neediness kills attraction like nothing else. The moment you don't care if she leaves you is the moment she wants to get back to you
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