[deleted by user]

CA-GMOW · 2022-01-13T20:32:13+00:00

K dude I'm going to give you cold truths.

Only women, children and pets are loved unconditionally. Men are loved on a condition they provide something.

Work the hell out of your young years.

Get more confident

Get your finances straight (you have good money saved up)

But be someone and it'll be lots easier to get a girl

If a girl rejects you, so what. Who gives a fuck. Just move on to the next one. Be indifferent of their choice who cares what they think about you. All that should worry you, is just you.

Once you get to a certain point in life when the girls of you age aren't as pretty as they use to be, they will fly to you. That's when younger girls will also find you more attractive. The market shifts. All you have to do is make sure that by that time, you're financially stable, in good shape, confident, and know exactly what you want in life, and what is the overall goal of your life.

justadamnmillenial · 2022-01-13T19:56:56+00:00

Working out for 15 mins a day ain’t enough bruh. Invest in yourself and the women will follow. Confidence is key. Take rejections on the chin and move on. Let your last girl go, get out there and meet as many people as you can. You’ll be alright. Women want men that have options and don’t get stuck on them right away. “Models” by Mark Manson is a book that’s helped a lot of people get closer to where they want to be in the lady department. I suggest giving it a whirl and see if it helps. You’re young. You’ll get there.

Relaxedllama · 2022-01-13T19:59:05+00:00

you simped hard for the first girl

SG_3160 · 2022-01-14T00:31:16+00:00

Don't throw in the towel bruh. Keep getting rejected one is bound to bite ! And once you grab one go crazy. The move on to a new task.

SnooMachines1406 · 2022-01-14T04:08:55+00:00

You really just need to keep approaching women and just dont come off as needy or goofy. You dont even need to have money really as long as your not insecure about it.

Swarley--stinson · 2022-01-14T15:44:03+00:00

Man, the problem here is that it takes time. We end up reacting to girls we meet in ways that make us less attractive becuase of needyness. The secret that I always use: Even if I have sex with a girl, or hangout or date for some time, I will not consider that I am with her until I have some reason to. This is accomplished with the concept of "willingness to walk away".

If the girl disrespect me, ghost me or anything like that, I just respond accordingly or stop talking to her for some time. "But what if I lose her?". That js the point. You might. And by acting like that you will end up having much more girls seeing you as high value. It will take time, but it works.

I actually have a friend that dates 10s of girls at the same time. And he does not take shit. If a girl says something he does not like or disrespect him, he will end things right away. And the girls almost always come back. Even when he had 0 girls he acted the same. And the results he has are a proof that it works

Right now I was in a rough patch. Now I have 2 girls that I am daring regurlarly and 2 potential dates for next week. However, I know I cant settle right now. It is not the best moment yet. I have to work to maintain and develop what I have, knowimng that I may lose 1 or both of them any time and that is okay.

T.l.d.r: be pragmatic and stop using concepts like "love of my life" and "the one". This is a way to you give value to her and remove value from yourself

Title	[deleted by user]
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	16
Date	January 13, 2022 7:33 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/s37kqw/deleted_by_user/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/deleted-by-user.1269110 https://theredarchive.com/post/1269110

Comments