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[–]omegam4n 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do whatever feels good to you, and it will probably feel good to him. Just keep in mind that a hard dick isn't really flexible.
[–]gugogi 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This, please take that in consideration. It hurts like hell
[–]_archi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Noted. Thanks.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Squat over him don't kneel. When you are on your feet and squat you will have much better control. The motion is more forward and backwards as opposed to up and down. Avoid up and down because if he slips out and you sit on it full force you can seriously damage his peen.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This. The more experienced women I sleep with always squat rather than kneel. They have way more control of the motions. But it does usually get them tired fast so I can understand why they prefer to kneel lol
[–]_archi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Won't squatting give me flexibility for up and down motion and kneeling front back motion?
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its YOUR body, you’re mostly talking to dudes, they wouldn’t know. Just try what works, ask your mans if its going good, be sure to include “should i do it more like this or this? Forward and backward? Or up and down?” And give him a demo while doing it, so he can feel it instead of assuming what would feel good.
Do what feels good for you and isn’t painful, that’s priority #1, next is prioritizing NOT snapping his cock, seen that happen, have had it almost happen, not fun, makes the sound of a knuckle popping almost.
Take it easy, don’t stress, its still just sex. Same rules apply. THOROUGH COMMUNICATION, wrapped in a pretty bow of sexually charged words, rather than clinical terminology. Simple enough, right?
[–]_archi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah makes a lot of sense. Thanks.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course! Before asking questions, ask yourself the questions. Don’t think, just sit there with the question asked into the room, and into your mind, you’ll likely come up with the answers yourself
Good rule of thumb is to have two perspectives, two dots. Be both dots. Now run a simulation of whatever your question is with those dots, if you care about yourself you’re gonna automatically care for the other’s needs, because in ‘the simulation’, they’re both you. This’ll build more empathy as you begin to see people as you see yourself, and you learn that whatever you think would feel good, probably feels good for the other party. Do not try this technique with BDSM topics in mind, unless you know the other party incredibly well as that gets fringe and its hard to draw lInes for other people. Keep this technique for vanilla things to start with. Those topics should be discussed in person, they have much more power play at stake, it muddles personal lines a lot. Which is why aftercare after BDSM work is important, it ensures the other party KNOWS they’re cared for during intense activity instead of feeling like they’re just an unfeeling object of pleasure and ‘torture’ for the dominant party. Know how to have open lines of communication, never falter on that, never be afraid to do what you need to do, and never fear that they might take it poorly, that is their problem, not yours. Your problem is to ensure you facilitate open communication. Same goes for your partner. One side fails in that, the other backs away, but never backs down in what is right for them, and the other party. Never compromise, that means taking a loss. Coming to an agreement is not necessarily compromise, its a mutual agreement
[–]winning2323 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
go to any pornsite and watch
[–]williamroberthoss 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just going say that. Be sure to search reverse cowgirl for some bonus points.
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