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[–]Radio_Unique 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
From a girl, men always invite to “come over” at home, it just sounds like u just wanna fuck.
I guess better to go some activity then sex after. so it’s more like genuine. I dunno this is just what I feel as a woman.
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[–]Radio_Unique 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
like chill at the beach with booze or videoke karaoke bars, gym, zip line ride, some new street food place wall climbing then tell upfront u crave her body to create sexual tension then enjoy sex. Then that’s done give flowers then u got our heart.
if Come over, i feel like extremely cheap no value.
one good one, the guy invited me for a hike out of town, so we got 1 room, so automatic fuck but I don’t mind coz he invited me for a hike, so I like to give my body coz he made effort to bring me on activities win win. If he leave after I don’t mind, I had a blast 💯
[–]OTXnando 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don’t do it bro it’s not worth the risk you risk the friendship it will never be the same when you guys have sex together.
[–]OTXnando 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly bro I think she’s just keeping you as a emotional dependent support system for herself. Someone to go to for attention/validation when she isn’t getting it from her boyfriend. When they argue your in the mix of all this plus your gonna fuck your good friend girlfriend nah bro it doesn’t look to good.
[–]John_Anderson18 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just do it bruh. Nothing to lose
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[–]Ryste12 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (14 children) | Copy Link
No can you read ? I wasn't interested in her like that back then. But that shit was like 3 years ago. My friend wants nothing to do her with anymore and has less than 0 interest in her. She's free real estate at this point. I would never do a friend dirty like that . Also she does respect me a lot ,you have no idea what my relation is with her and what we've been through. And no it's more like a very good shot for a lay, but again you wouldn't understand because you don't know the bond between me and her & she's a bit of a special one and behaves in her own weird unique way. I am also like this and could sort of read her (for whtever that's worth with girls lol) while nobody really understood her
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[–]Ryste12 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
Having a good bond with someone does not mean you want/have to build a family with them smartass. I admit in the end it's still just a plain hookup attempt yes but if possibly more were to come of it , i might go with the flow and see where it ends up.But thinking about it i would not want to be in an actual relationship with her and would make that clear to her. But you're just being ignorant on the fact that sex means nothing if both parties are aware of this and are consensual. There doesn't always have to be any strings attached just because 2 people want to have some fun
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[–]Ryste12 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
I mean , sure i fantasized about it a few times. But i can't control the thoughts that cross my mind. What i can control however , is my actions. Hence why i would never ever flirt with her when she was with that friend. And no you are just reaching you do not know what the situation was like. Also it was a few months, not years lmao. She was like always over at his house. And this guy is not only a good friend , he also happened to be my weed plug so i would always stay over and chill with him for a bit. Smoke a good j , have some nice conversations , listen to music & play some games. It just so happened that they argued a lot and didn't care about keeping it private so often i got stuck in the crossfire. Just basically staying out of it even though the both of them would try to get me to agree with them i just said f off this is your relationship and your problem. When their argument stopped, and maybe they were crying or some shit i would just be a good friend to both and try to cheer them up and talk them out of their anger. But you wouldn't know all of this of course because you're just reaching and pulling stuff out of your arse with no knowledge of how things happened. I was just looking for advice for a hookup i did not ask for some internet psychologist tryna tell me i'm a cuck and analyse my relationships with people when they know jack shit. Go wipe the grease off your sweaty fingers and keep your little imaginations to yourself because they are a waste of bandwidth.
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[–]Ryste12 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
No need to. I will just continue to not give a single flying f*ck whether i actually hook up or not because i'm pursueing different goals in life. Like you probably have no idea how little this ordeal means to me. As you said before, there's plenty of fish in the sea. She would just be a good fwb bc we know each other well + she's pretty hot . But still , i couldn't care less. I'll just watch some anime and i'm chilling hard.the only thing that pissed me off was a reddit dork acting high & allmighty talking bout stuff literally nobody asked for while simultaneously knowing nothing about the topic & on top of that analyzing shit like he's some kind of psychologist and coming to the conclusion that i'm a cuck even though not knowing me at all. I ask about a hookup and you start analyzing random stuff ? Stop overthinking it buddy its a fucking hookup.
Also i don't think a girl that doesn't respect me would make a 2 hour trip and show up at my house because i was mad and ignoring her calls&messages just to apologise while crying. And tbh it wasn't even that bad looking back i feel like i overreacted a little myself
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[–]Ryste12 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry bro i definitely crossed the line with that one, hope we can call it quits 😢
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Dude who gives a fuck what these guys say they’re just jealous because they wanna fuck their girl best friend too.
Fucking go for it.
[–]Ryste12 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Ye especially with the ass she got on her. Shiiit these guys have no idea
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yea a lot of guys wanna get with their girl best friend so it’s not surprising to me that these guys are JEALOUS AF that you actually have a shot.
Just do it. Maybe something good will come from it
Yeaa you're defo right about that. And knowing her worst case scenario she says no and won't really care, and i continue life as always with my trusted companion mr. good ol right hand whenever the need arises
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Personally I asked out my girl best friend a couple years ago, and I did it in a stupid way but she got like shocked. I got rejected. So that’s why I say go for it.
We’re still great friends, and to be honest every time I talk about other girls around her she gets silent. Like if I were to text her right now and tell her I talked to mad girls at the bar she would not want to hear it. Anyone else in our group, she’d congratulate and want to hear about it. Deep down I think at one point she really liked me (or still does) and gets jealous when I mention other girls but she’ll never ever tell me that.
Good luck man, hope it works out.
Sorry to hear it didn't work out , but respect for shooting your shot !You know how the saying goes 😉 and yea if you know them really well and openly talk about sexuality and shit i don't feel like it would impact the friendship in the long run as everyone gets horny or catches feelings at some point and they will understand because every person goes through this .
There's no need to make a big deal out of it. In a strange way a rejection might even better your friendship as that sexual taboo barrier has been broken so to say. Making both of you even more open to each other and can even have a good laugh about it later.
Of course it won't always turn out like that but i feel like if the friendship is real enough she probably wouldn't care too much. And thank you also ! I too do hope so very much because god damn that's gonna be a hell of a good time
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