Older woman/Younger man

shakksss1 · 2020-02-07T10:39:30+00:00

I’m in to older women, they’re more confident, experienced and mature. I say just treat him like a normal flirt and seeing as you are the older one maybe initiate something? (Not all the time but) maybe just initiate a gesture that says your interested him and let him take it from there.

If you really want to go for it just tell him straight up you’re interested in him. I’m sure he’ll be flattered.

Some younger guys are intimidated, some aren’t, it’s really individual. And yes its best if you start off taking the lead. He might want you too but is reluctant due to what you think of the age difference.

jpggp · 2020-02-07T11:26:56+00:00

Agree with shakksss, just act like you would normally with other guys you've been attracted to. Give him some kind of clue you are into him. And then I'm sure he will come bouncing up to you like a puppy dog to ask you out. But...sometimes they do need an extra little push if you see they are intimidated by you, but don't do anything out of your comfort zone. If it seems to not be moving even after you have given the signals, I would find a way to get him out of the gym in a social situation with you.. Or if the sexual tension becomes too much, fuck it and ask him out point blank!

I generally date guys who are at least 10 years younger than me, heheh, often more! it's great! I will never date an older guy again, and maybe nor will you! ;)

quinnmcd · 2020-02-07T12:41:34+00:00

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Title	Older woman/Younger man
Author	ash_blond_erin
Upvotes	5
Comments	3
Date	February 7, 2020 10:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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