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[–]PabloAlaska6 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No girl is going to like a guy that doesn’t like himself. Work on YOU first. The tone of your post seems like you need to build on your confidence.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What PabloAlaska6 said. Few things too.
1) Finding. I don’t think you get what it means when it comes to dating. Finding a girlfriend doesn’t just happen out of nowhere. It’s a relationship that is honestly made. Plus it’s more about approaching a girl and getting to know her. Sometimes people become a couple, but sometimes not. You’re not always going to become a couple, even if you think “she’s beautiful/ the one/ got to date her/ etc.”
2) It also sounds like not only becoming confident in yourself is the only thing that’s needed. If you think girls and women like guys who are just hot, then I got bad news for you. You’re choosing the wrong type of person. I’m not denying physical attraction, but there’s so much more to it that if you let physical attraction be the only important thing, you’re going to set yourself up for failure. Ladies want men to be men. This is not the whole “BE A MAN” type of talk. I mean they want a guy whose a person. Whose got character. Not some “he’s just hot”. If you date a girl whose “he’s hot”, you’re going to hit a hard wall at some point. If you stay with the thought they just want a hot guy, you need to be looking for other fish rather than just stick to tuna.
[–]nocapjack 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
and this comment right here is why you can’t seduce anyone
[–]quinnmcd[M] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
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