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FrostyCabinet · 2020-08-24T12:18:17+00:00

Sounds like she was giving you clear signals to approach. "How" to approach without making it awkward isn't the right question to ask. Just introduce yourself, it doesn't matter if it's awkward. If you follow a script where you're saying XYZ then it's not genuine, which is even worse.

icovasilico · 2020-08-24T13:41:05+00:00

You should definetly approach her, don't think about the fact that you aren't "buff" like some guys in the gym, because most girls prefer normal muscles over buff ones. She was looking at you, try talking to her, it can never be a waste of time.

cocoatogo · 2020-08-24T13:52:52+00:00

Hmmm I’m trying to think what I would like if I was her. Honestly, I would just strike up a conversation when she finishes a set or goes to get water. A passing joke or friendly non flirty compliment maybe. Pray that she has a tshirt with something interesting written on it that you can comment on LOL. Then always say hello when you see her. If she starts approaching you when she sees you then it can lead to longer conversations and such and is a good sign she’s at least curious to know you. But if she does that polite acknowledgment then keeps moving I would read that as she’s not interested. I wouldn’t be too forward because some women really hate being hit on at the gym.

jmbear7 · 2020-08-24T15:25:00+00:00

definitely say hello or smile when you see her, but not in a deliberate way. just be friendly and true to yourself. then when you see the opportunity to talk to her (i highly suggest it being non flirty) she will be comfortable with speaking to you. a lot of women are cautious at the gym because of creeps so being friends with her first will go a long way.

quinnmcd · 2020-08-24T16:13:54+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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docent3434 · 2020-08-24T14:18:17+00:00

Maybe just mine opinion but I really do not care about anything else than gym when I am at the gym. Tunnel vision. You can roll in front of me, dance, jerk off.. I will still prepare for my incline bench. I approach woman on daily basis but I respect gym far too much to approach there. I appreciate my time and I respect their time there. Outside the gym? Sure. Inside the gym? If she has ear phones? GTFO bud. If she calls for a spot. You spot her. You don't hit on her on her PR.. Considering your case, could be IOI but you should take that outside the gym. She could be shit testing will you just hump to her as a dog on a whistle.

mupete · 2020-08-24T16:00:08+00:00

Oh how many times have I experienced this situation myself...only to find out at the end of the workout that she walked away from the gym with her boyfriend who was there with her, just training on other stations... If you want to make the move, make sure it's really worth it.

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