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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
OP, this is the only reply you’ll need.
Work on yourself and your self confidence. Ignore all the PUA advice here. It’s the blind leading the blind.
[–]enjsndi9999999999 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Working on yourself does nothing when you’re not what women want to begin with. No amount of therapy will fix a fucked up face lmfao delusional 🤡
[–]PimPedOutGeese 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Long post.
2). Unfortunately there isn’t really a quantitative answers for your first point. You can certainly talk too much though that’s for sure. It’s not about how much you talk as it is what you say and how you say it. You need to be somewhat open ended in your responses to the point if they are open to interpretation. She needs to discover the answers on her own. Don’t give them to her. Your 2nd point has some truth to it. Humans want to have sex. So yea if you have a good sexualized conversation then the “come over at 9” text will get a response. The hobbies, likes and dislikes, etc is boring. I know you wanted an A-C equation but unfortunately talking to anyone isn’t that simple but here’s an attempt. In order to keep moving up the ladder you have to keep the conversation interesting. In order to keep things interesting you have to give them open ended responses so you appear mysterious and let the woman figure it out for themselves.
3) Ultimately confidence. The word, by definition, explains why women like men. The feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something. Women are biologically a weaker sex. They have always needed protection from men throughout human history. Now there is a shred of truth to the “both sides” equation. Woman want both the bad ass and the nice guy. But... since women are emotional creatures the bad ass sparks more emotion than the nice so women lean toward them more. Especially the younger a woman is. Still at the end of the day a woman’s goal is to secure a man for protection rather that be financially stability or whatever it is that that woman may need. The bad ass “idgaf” sparks the emotion in a woman so she wants him. But she knows he is truly not hers yet which is evident in his “idgaf” attitude. My guess is her thinking is if I can get him to care I can hook him or something along those lines. She doesn’t want to let go of this confident man who makes her feel good and that is a challenge for her. Her challenge is to make him commit to her and her alone. That’s what makes a woman want a “idgaf” man.
Hope I explained!
Yes cold approaching lowers value, a king doesn’t walk up to peasants looking for attention. A king has them come to them, that being said if you’re under 7/10 you will have to cold approach because you won’t get any signals from women and they won’t chase you unless you have openly shown wealth (diamond Rolex, hellcat & Benz & other expensive cars, name brand clothing) then you won’t have a problem attracting their attention because they will already see you from a higher stand point. There’s some low key ways to do it like you’re at a library and she’s standing by a shelf go get a book and ignore her, if you’re hot she’ll wonder why you’re not talking to her and possibly ask you a question which removes you from that cold approach.
You should always either talk in person or by video or voice chat. It’s boring through text, talking shows emotion, mood, intent, etc etc and that excites women more that just telling a joke by text which is more than likely over analyzed and misconstrued by her. If you’re 6+ 90% of women will give you their number, if you’re uglier though she will either give you a fake number or if she’s nice ask for yours and never contact you. There’s too much “small talk” over text and it doesn’t age well since at any moment your attention can be grabbed elsewhere. So avoiding texting as much as possible, once she’s been with you then you can text.
Women will ALWAYS find physical attractiveness first on their list. Let’s say if there’s 10 guys in a room and 9/10 are hot af but shitty people and 1 ugly guy that’s nice she will give all the hot guys a shot before she ever considers the ugly guy. That’s just reality, so if you’re 7/10 or higher then you’re almost GOLDEN. 2. Hygiene (including not being fat) this is a bare minimum for ugly guys and it doesn’t give them anything in return other than them being viewed as normal. I did a test, 1 cologne on 1 hot guy and 1 ugly guy and the hot guy got compliments while nothing happened for the ugly guy. Lol pretty funny actually.
Never go off of what women say, go by their actions. If she says she wants a nice guy who’s sweet but all of her ex’s are assholes then you know she’s lying. Women find a guy that’s wanted by many women attractive “hive mind = other women love him so I will too”. Everyone on here talks about a “purpose” yet none of the people here actually have one lol Have a job (better paying the better you’re off), have an adventurous life that needs nothing to fulfill it (women want to leech of your happiness and do so without any expectations on them). 3. Personality (she might fuck you if you’re a shitty person but she won’t marry you “well maybe she will but let’s say she won’t”. ) this is where you have to be the most confident, charismatic, charming, comedian that’s over 6ft and etc etc etc. good luck tho!
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