Develop Confidence And Attract More Women

Developing confidence is important because it helps you with everything in life. Confidence helps you with not only women but with friends, work, and school. When you are confident you enjoy life and become more positive. People love being around confident and positive people. Honestly, if you lack confidence it will be hard for you to attract women and have a stable love life.

Failure Builds Confidence

The hard truth is that in order to build the unbreakable confidence that all successful men possess, you have to expose yourself. Whenever you take a risk you are building confidence. This is because if you fail or succeed you gain experience. The next time you take that same risk you will be prepared. So when it comes to women most guys have approach anxiety Which is basically the fear of approaching or rejection. Most people are scared to attempt new things.

In order to become confident when approaching women, you have to expose yourself. TAKE ACTION. TAKE RISK. You will NEVER become confident unless you actually try it. There are no shortcuts to success. The more you shot your shot, the more successful you will become with women. APPROACH! APPROACH! APPROACH! Think of the last time you failed with a woman? Did you analyze the situation then try and improve? If you do that means from that experience you developed a little more confidence and are prepared if that situation ever comes up again.

Have A Solid Social Circle To Develop Confidence With Women

You are the sum of your five closest friends. So if you are not confident look at your friend group. Are they confident? If they all have insecurities you will also develop a lot of insecurities. You should surround yourself with ALPHA males or guys you would like to become. Even if your friends are insecure make sure they have qualities that you want to have also. You can have a friend that is not in the best position in life but if he gets girls it will help you get a bunch of women.

Where Do You Meet Other Alpha Males

Alpha males are everywhere! They also love socializing and will help you develop your social skills. The best way to meet them is through sports. Try joining a local recreational sports team. There are sports leagues for all age groups. Become friends with the people that play in these sports leagues. If you are not good at sports then you can become friends with the people at your gym. For the guys who are not athletic or in shape, you can meet alpha male friends through work, school, or extracurricular activities.

Smile And Say Hi To Everyone

In order to become more confident, you must always smile. Whenever you talk to someone make sure to smile a lot. They will start perceiving you as a confident person. You are adding value to someone life whenever you smile. You are putting a smile on their face and bringing them happiness. Also, make it a habit to say Hi to everyone. Whenever you are at work, school or in public just say Hi and smile. If you say Hi to the same person every day, eventually you guys will have a conversation one day. This is how you build your network and social circle.

Focus On Improving Yourself

When a person makes improvements they develop confidence. Work on your style, career, and health. A way to instantly boost your confidence is by upgrading your wardrobe. When you have a clean outfit your confidence skyrockets for the day. So try and buy new clothing to develop a stylish wardrobe. Keep up with your grooming! Having a clean haircut and facial hair will give you a confidence boost. If you do not want to spend a lot of money on grooming a great skill would be learning how to groom your own hair.

Take Baby Steps When Trying To Attract Women

Building confidence is a slow process that is beneficial in the long run. Take action every day and start off with baby steps. Everyone’s goal is to date a woman that is a 10. Sometimes you need to start off with the women that are six on the rating scale to develop your confidence. They will help you become more comfortable with women. You will learn how to read women and make a move. Do not make your goal to go out and get a 10 the first day. Try and focus on starting a random conversation with a stranger. Then start a conversation with the cashier. Next, try and compliment a woman. Then approach a woman. Next, get a girl’s numbers. The point of this is to start off slow then work your way up.

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[–]Kaarboer 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

One huge problem with this imo: everyone has insecurities. Alpha males, insofar as that’s a category that’s really worth analysis for understanding self-improvement , suffer from them too. Several of the most “alpha”/sexually successful guys I know have massive insecurities about their ability to maintain lasting relationships, or about their academic/professional careers. Honestly, realizing that was a massive confidence booster for me.

The problem isn’t having insecurities, it’s letting them effect your daily life and interactions. Those “alpha” men’s insecurities are all geared pretty far away from their romantic life, and so even as they don’t actively seek to deal with them they aren’t negatively effected (in the way seddit would really care about). They might have serious struggles maintaining romantic relationships or not trying to argue that their interpretation of Durkheim is superior when drunk at a party with their fellow grad students (true story, happened last weekend and was the cringiest thing I’ve seen in a while), but those things don’t come out in the relatively limited sphere of a hookup or even casually dating. Thus, they come off as “confident” in the short term because their insecurities aren’t triggered.

Meanwhile, other types of insecurities (masculinity, fitness, aesthetics, intelligence) do tend to appear faster in a short-term romantic context, even if they are less severe, because that context causes those insecurities to manifest. When those insecurities manifest and cause failure, the subjects of those insecurities are blamed, rather than the insecurities themselves which generated a lack of confidence. I’m pretty convinced that incels are caused by a particularly bad form of that feedback loop taking root in HS, but that’s straying from the topic.

This is where the going gets rough—you have to short-term deal with the behavior caused by those insecurities and long-term deal with the insecurities themselves. The first is where I’d challenge the notion that having visibly insecure friends is a bad thing: if you see someone insecure acting out from their insecurities, you can use that to fight that behavior in yourself. You probably don’t want to have exclusively visibly insecure friends because that can lead to crabs-in-a-bucket mentality, but a healthy mix is ideal. Moreover, if those friends have identified and admitted their insecurities, they can help you when yours take control. Which is where we get to the second problem of working to eliminate or at least reduce the power of the insecurities themselves, for which there’s really only one thing: therapy.

[–]beastmodeMag[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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