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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't overthink this. You're in a group of FRIENDS who all know each other and will be seeing each other on a routine basis. If you start running routines and pre-canned stories it will be so forced and they're gonna look at you like you're insane. Literally just have fun and completely disconnect from an outcome with this girl. If you're having fun with this group and the girl likes you, great. If not, you still have a fun group of friends to hang out with. Don't spit game and ruin a good thing.
[–]aspiring_intentional1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I see your point. This girl is very confident, outgoing, attractive and smart. I'm sure she knows how attractive she is so trying to get her to like me like so many other guys may not be the best idea. Disconnecting from the outcome is solid advice in my case. Thanks.
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