Been seeing this girl for a while. Been on 5 dates with her. She also came over to my house on the 4th Date but there was LMR and we stuck to upper body. She has never texted me first. Lots of IOI's and touching during dates from her side. It literally takes me a few days to setup a date, getting confirmation out of her. She has also bailed on me twice before coming to my house until she finally came over. No effort from her side on setting up dates at all. Its like shes just along for the ride.

Shes been 20-30min late for every single date I've had with her besides the time she came to my house on time. I did call her out on that, no improvement. Next date I tried scheduling she said "I will let you know". Timespan between dates is like 2 weeks because shes so "busy". I honestly can't tell if shes interested or not, I am thinking of just texting her and "asking her do you like me?" If she ghosts or gives me a half ass answer I am just going to block her and move on. Unfortunately I never get so hung up on this stuff when I am seeing multiple people but shes the only one I am seeing ATM so that makes me put all my eggs in one basket.

I think we've sent like 30 texts all together to arrange the last 4 dates, since I can't talk about anything else since its like crickets from her side so I just give her a time and place after I ask her what her schedule is like.