Hey, people!

I came across this sub a couple days ago and to my bafflement, it was actually pretty useful in terms of advice xD. Consider me subscribed.

So here's my current predicament:

I think I'm a fairly attractive guy, 7-7.5/10. The issue I've been having really since post high school (and moving to a uni were an insane amount of hot girls is pretty much the norm) is realizing that I'm better looking than other guys yet unable to land women that less attractive guys could easily nab. Personal confidence is not an issue here. I think it's how I approach women.

I've developed a pretty bubbly personality over the years. Usually always happy, smiling, and nice. Like too nice. The girl I tried my best to get with when i went abroad told me on a 1 v 1 session when I gave up that one of my best qualities was being "sociable" or a good conversationalist but again, that didn't really get me anywhere. I've tried taking the asshole approach to women but usually, fall short because I can't get myself to be a dick 24/7. It's just against my nature so I said fuck that approach. I pretty much fit the stereotype of "the nice guy" who finishes last.

How do I change this?

Also, I've been reading around about sexual energy and going on dates and making physical contact but that still kind of vague. How do I do this without being weird/creepy/whatever?

My biggest issue is post number. Approaching women has never been an issue, getting their numbers have never been an issue. It's how to proceed from there and how to not give off such an "I want to be your friend" vibe from the get-go