Can you rebound from a double text? I understand it can be a sign of neediness but, I didn't know that can end the spark

I had a crush on this girl since the beginning of the semester. I asked her in about 6 weeks in. When I did ask her to study with me she wanted my #. She was supposed to call me to schedule it out but didn't. I saw her in class and she gave friendly vibes.

So I the signs, retried and asked for her # and got it. She apologized 3 times before giving it. And about matched interest as I felt about her. And texted her apology after confirming her name. A day later I texted her if she was feeling better (cuz b4 she was so sick she could barely talk to me).

-2 days from then I officially asked her out for lunch. She texted back in shock, excitement, and curiosity about this hole in the wall burger joint I recommend. And happily agreed.

Next day she cancelled cuz of someone quit at work and she had to cover. Then she texted me that her sorries didn't mean shit but that's all she could give me and would make it like giving me a rain check. I humored her down and told her I get it.

Following week I butt called her on accident. And decided to just text her. She told me she was in class I told her "cool I'll leave ya alone". She said "nah keep texting me". & We had a quality convo.

All that went to waste when I double texted yesterday?! Fucking bullshit.

We're winding down last 3 weeks of class. I wanna know more about her via face to face. I really like this girl. I lost the date. Fine. Is there a chance I'm overreacting?

This has been the 4 attempt to ask her out. She's been nothing but sincere. Should I text her after Thanksgiving weekend to see how she's doing?