Drinking before going on a date

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-03-25T21:40:55+00:00

I know people say "just be yourself, don't worry what she thinks" yada yada yada.

Yeah, no we don't say that. Not at all. You can "be yourself" after you seduce her. And no, we do not recommend you "don't worry what she thinks," we recommend that you do your best and then don't worry about the outcome.

My opinion is that you should not drink before a date. Eventually you will have to deal with your nerves, without alcohol. It is more important to learn skills, than to win any single encounter. You must not avoid any difficult learning experiences, they are often more valuable than positive experiences.

2Siders · 2015-03-25T21:56:28+00:00

I used to drink a lot when I went to clubs, and all I can say it doesn't really help that much with your skills, it lowers your approach-anxiety a bit, but what's more important is that eventually you WILL have to face your fears.

There will be a time when you try to do it without alcohol and it will be awkward. But that's fine.

Landscapedude · 2015-03-26T12:15:34+00:00

Seems Like you are an Addict Like me. Two path :

the hard one : stop drinking for the rest of tour live. And focus on yourself. On "how to manage m'y pulsion Like that"
or you continue : because your are nervous, because you can't help it, because week you drink 1 hour before the date she doesn't de it. And this list can be bigger than that.

Title	Drinking before going on a date
Author	throwaway717861
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	March 25, 2015 9:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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