So after considerable time with books, reports of others successes and the like, I have FINALLY gotten to the point where a lack of success has become educational and not a confidence breaker. Truthfully.. my strength has never been in pickup but have usually been successful with getting laid after an introduction. Going out into the field and finding a brand new person still seems a bit awkward, but with since pressing on, I can realize what I can do better next time and not have that pang of rejection.... thanks community!