Location : SF
PUA aspiration : Starboi
Background:
I am 25 y/o kid who grew up in India (visibly brown). I work in SF and have been in the city for an year. Altho I have a slight american accent, most people can identify I am not an ABCD. I am lean with glasses. Used to be cute kid (in India), average looks by US standards. People say I look at a smart person who gives a techie vibe. I work as a SWE for a well know firm in the bay area. I know for sure that I am an interesting person (have a nerd side) but also know quite a bit about business, economics etc, have traveled to 20+ countries, surf etc.
I went to a bar in the Mission. Started a conversation with three different groups
Sarge 1 (2 set)
Opened the group with -'Can I get your opinion on something? My friend has a new girlfriend...'. Got cold responses and was told 'You should mind your own business. We are trying to have a conversation of our own'
Sarge 2
Sat next to a whale. Made small talk till I brought the story of how an old Mexican friend can't say 'Yellow' (she says it as 'Jellow'). She started getting angry and told me she won't take racist shit from someone who is not from America. I told her not to shout. She started yelling and I basically cut her from there
Sarge 3
Followed the three second rule to approach a 3 set with "Do you drive I am looking for a friend to rob a bank." 2 other guy friends joined in and I roped them into my bank heist. Later,2 cute Indian chics walked in. There are both Australian. I immediately hit off with Girl1 but found out she is married. She was making fun of me for being emotionally immature (she is 27 y/o and claimed this is an Indian 25 y/o thing) Anyhow, we kept talking to a point that she asked me how I knew the group. I told her honestly, I just met them - she said 'Hats off for putting yourself out there as an Indian guy." I asked if she wanted to hangout next day for a coffee, she told me she was in town for 3 days and busy with her friends. Girl2 was quiet. She was sweet looking, well traveled, had kind eyes and worked for Management Consulting (which I think is really cool). I was intentionally trying not to hit on her immediately but later found it hard to talk to her because Girl1 was acting too needy and won't let me talk to her. In the end as I walked away, I got Girl2's number (it wasn't too smooth tbh). I am thinking if I should text Girl2. I have good rapport with Girl1 but only know Girl2 superficially. What do y'all think?
I read Neil Strauss' The Game this week. It has been eye-opening. While I do not buy the hypnosis part, I think there are some really cool lessons in the group (win her friends, don't act needy, have a funny opener). But I still have a long way to go it seems like. Anyone in SF who still into this stuff (and possibly wants to practice)? Does PUA theory work these days?
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