First date at a bar

jsimco876 · 2015-05-19T16:53:56+00:00

If you're picking her up, just be a gentlemen. Buy her night, because you asked her out. Just be the best man you can be, don't over think it. Flow through the night, and try to learn as much as you can about each other.

One more thing...HAVE FUN! That's what it's all about!

Spacemole · 2015-05-19T17:35:15+00:00

Have fun, don't worry about it. It's tinder so your not going to be marrying this girl most likely. Just hand out, if you had fun on IM keep the fun vibe going.

Give her your attention, and actually be interested in what she is saying, if you can get her to do the talking. Make it a night about her, the less talking you can manage ( assuming she is instead, silence is bad) the better.

I have a friend who had been with loads of guys before and then went on her first real 'first date'. ( she had met all her bf's at party's etc so she always skipped it).

If you are very confident like her, and also aren't really counting on this being 'the one' ( as in, my friend was more 'why not he's hot, what's the worst that could happen'); she opened with 'I've never really been on a first date so talk me through this'.

Really don't think this will work as a male though.

Title	First date at a bar
Author	ruph0us
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	May 19, 2015 4:39 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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