First time in a long time...

DumpsterDan99 · 2019-08-31T02:59:36+00:00

I mean I understand you have the possibility of seeing this girl again, but put yourself in the other guy's shoes (if this boyfriend is even real).

WIA20XX · 2019-08-31T03:55:30+00:00

"I have a boyfriend, but I am still taking offers."

Most likely a time waster, but if possible to get her out, it is then possible to hook up.

Dinner, drinks, stoke the sexual tension with words, nonverbal communication, increasing levels of privacy from prying eyes, then have a plausible reason to go to your place. Seal the deal.

Her behavior is fairly typical. The hardest part is getting her to show up. After that it's about the escalation.

She doesn't want to cheat intellectually speaking, but meeting a strange man for dinner betrays her true feelings.

She is just seeing what is out there. And in her mind, there is b nothing wrong with that! All of her girlfriends agree.

She would never admit to anything untoward.

The hard part will be avoiding the other dick in the room.

You don't want to talk about the boyfriend. But you also don't want to make it seem like you don't want to talk about him.

I am probably talking a bit past your level, but girls like mischief.

They like getting away with things.
They like freedom.
They don't like being restrained (I mean with respect to their choices in life)
less likely to consider the consequences, or believe that they can get out of whatever the consequences are.

So even if you're just having dinner and exchanging dry biological information about each other - the real play is getting her in an adventurous and playful mindset.

Once that is done, it's really having some plausible deniability to get to your place, and then the sex just kinda happened.

And did it really happen?

I mean if she doesn't love you, is it really cheating?

Doesn't she deserve some pleasure in her life?

At best, the sex was just a more complicated hug.

Etc. You'll know what the girl needs to keep her head up high.

Title	First time in a long time...
Author	laptop_throwaway92
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	August 31, 2019 2:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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