Hey guys,

Turning to y'all for help.

I've hit a rut where I'm suddenly having girls go from all about me to cold as a batch of liquid nitrogen.

I get the girl to like me, win her friends. guys of the group give me the nod of approval. No tricks, just good body language, friendly but not creepy, strong but not an complete dick I go after very attractive girls and have high standards, cause well I'm not desperate. I've also never been the guy to just want sex.

We go on dates and seem to have a great time kissing, touching, etc. I take them to interesting, interactive dates. I don't stalk or text too often. I ask interesting questions. They start making future plans with me. Hell they even say yes to a second date, when I follow up day of, or touch base, I get the cold shoulder.

So advice how do I prevent the cold shoulder? How do I prevent the flakes? How do I increase my 2nd and 3rd date chances? How do i text to get better responses?

Thanks in advance.