Hey guys, I've been lurking on this sub for awhile, maybe 3 or 4 months. I have spent these months trying to actively absorb everything i could from FR's, general tips, and videos. In a week I am going to be on spring break as a college freshmen and I think this is a great time to break out of my shell. A little background about me I've been with girls, but looking back at it all 4 or 5 of them were handed to me, they approached me and I didn't do anything other than let it happen. I am now realizing the hard way this is not going to work in college, I'm assuming because girls have so many options here from desperate guys... I'm an above average looking guy, 6 foot 2 and I play sports. I know I have the potential to develop seriously impressive game I just don't know where to start. Any tips you all could give me before this trip would be great. So far I have learned that 1)Touch is VERY important to escalation and not being friend zoned 2)Do not look to girls for validation, it can only be found within yourself 3)girls want guys as much as guys want girls (kind of) 4)never put the girl on a pedestal, no matter how attractive, because you are the prize, not her.