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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 16 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've already set up a couple of other dates with girls just to try to kick off the one-itis that I can feel
You sir, win.
[–]teaswiss 0 points1 point2 points 16 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
won't help me improve my closing ratio though. Any advice how to save this one?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 16 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh, that's tough and I would say it depends on where you're at with her..
If you let her flake too much, you'll seem try-hard (low value), and that won't help you out.
I think the best formula for handling flakes over phone / text is something like this:
"Hey I just got done with [high value activity] and I'm hungry, so i'm heading over to [location] to get some food, want to come along?"
That works much better than the typical, low value "I'm thinking about you" crap. "you've hijacked my brain" routines works really well if you are in Comfort and she needs to qualify, but if she's flaking you have the opposite problem.
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