Setup: After work (~7 pm), my buddy and I head to an outdoor concert for a couple beers. Great opportunity to warm up and get in state by talking with friends and familiar faces.

HB “Blue”:

I focus on making eye contact with every potential HB there, and I see a cute blonde HB with a blue dress and rocking body. We make eye contact and we hold…hold….(I never lose this game)….hold…until people walk between us and break the gaze. I immediately head her direction (she sees) and as I get closer I notice she’s surrounded by 5 bros. Damn. I continue walking, and as I pass her group I light her up with eye contact and she matches me. Game on. My buddy and I position ourselves about 20 yards behind the group (HB facing away) and small talk some people in the area. I notice her looking around (presumably for me) and I make myself visible to meet her eyes as she looks in my direction. I make another pass on her group (she sees), but this time she grabs my arm and opens to me. I immediately pull her from the bros and begin leading the conversation with light banter. She asks for my number, so I hand her my beer, take her phone and put my # in, we make plans to meet up later in the night. We meet an hour later (now she’s with only 1 bro and a girlfriend of hers), and my sole intention is to escalate this interaction as fast as possible. I escalate my kino, grab her hand and begin leading her to another bar away from her friends, she’s receptive (all within 5 minutes). As we’re walking away, I use the “wait” k-close routine (props to /u/choc_is_back) and it’s almost too easy. For the next hour, I relocate her to 2 bars, maintain heavy kino, and build comfort until her buying temperature is just right to take her home (~10 pm). As were walking to my house, I turn to the conversation sexual with simple sexual innuendos. She breaks out the ASD and LMR as were making out on my couch, but her attempt is easily navigated with a small freeze out (I got up, left, and returned with a glass of water for her). Things escalate until she’s naked on top of me and she whips out her final shit test…. “when am I going to see you again?”

And I come up with this gem…. “Probably never.” backstory: I’m moving to CO next week, which I made pretty clear to her earlier.

Next thing I know she goes full batshit crazy and begins bawling with her hands in your face. Fuck this, I pack a bowl and pour myself a glass wine and get ready to go back out (it’s 11 pm at this point and I’m in a great state).She demands that I drive her home, I laugh, and make her walk with me back to the bars where she gets a cab, and I go meet up with my friends.

Spent the rest of the night opening set’s with the floss opinion opener (My favorite opener, so engaging and easy transition with banter). Ended up k-closing one girl and # closing another, but more importantly my buddy and I had an epic night.

Takeaways

  • Maximize eye contact, never be first to break it, and mix it up after the 2 or 3 times your eyes meet (throw in a smirk or slight tilt to your head). Eye contact is a low investment action with potential for high reward.
  • Always be gauging her buying temperature, and act on it as soon as you think she's there.
  • Expect LMR and ASD, so have a plan ahead of time.
  • Be honest with women, but not brutally honest (at least sugar coat it)

Until next time!

OliverTwist