Seduction has been something that fortunately has come easy for me, so I wanted to come here to share some of my more favorite techniques for guys that are shy like me.

Firstly, I don't approach women. It's not a necessary aspect of my technique. Without an approach you will have to be very patient and very deliberate. What we are really focusing on is meeting people naturally. I've found that in one night out I can meet an average of five people to talk to for longer than three minutes. They don't have to be people you're attracted to, just anyone you can relate and talk to.

An example of this working perfectly just happened on Friday night, so here goes: I went out with some friends to a whiskey bar where we chatted with an Irish lad for a bit who introduced us to a bunch of older ladies out for someone's birthday. Not our cup of tea, so we move along. Fast forward to the next bar, play a few rounds of pool and get approached by this country girl who wants to play with us. I sit that round out at the bar and she's coming up between every shot to talk to me while she kicks my friend's ass at pool. My opener if you could call it that was, "so you're a pool master on the weekends?" We talked for a bit. After this point my friends went home to smoke but I stayed out because a lady friend texted me to meet her at another bar. This is where it gets good. I walk in, sit down for a drink and make polite with the bartender for a minute when a very attractive female I don't know at all turns me around and shoves a slice of pizza in my mouth. Then she puts it in her mouth and asks me and her friend to eat it out of her mouth. Kinda weird, but I was into it. She asks for my phone and puts my number in, then I say as soon as she types it "gotta go!" And take off to meet my friend. Basically I got approached rather than the other way around and it worked, I just walked in with confidence and acted like a genuine human being. So I meet my friend, we have a drink and she asks if I want to come over after. Yes. This was a perfect night. They don't all go this way. I have had plenty of nights end just toking with my buddies, which is always nice too.

What I take away from it is that you cannot ever play it too cool. Girls will make fun of guys that approach them with awkward pickup lines, interrupting their conversations. You will always be more attractive by being polite and treating women just like you treat your friends.

Side note, I'm at work typing this up and a customer offers to buy me a drink, I'm meeting her after I get off in ten minutes. No game is best game!

Tldr: women are people, so just look them in the eye and have a conversation without any pressure for your relationship to turn into a sexual one, that will happen on its own.