Hey first post here. So I k-closed hb7.5 last week, not going to go into detials pretty regular stuff. Party, she approached me(we already kinda knew each other though), connected with her, she suggests we go to the couch, we do, then I suggest she 'talks to me while I play music and sober up in the car'.At the end of the night I gave her my number (my favorite thing to do), we sent a few texts to each other and then I stopped.

called her the next day to set up a d2. Kept the call short (3 min):(what have you been doing, joke, I want to see you agian, make a plan (picnic), cant wait, bye).

She texts me the day before the d2:

HB7.5:hey im so sorry I have to do this...But i cant go on our adventure tomarrow. I found out I have strep throat/fever and I feel like complete shit. Im sorry :(

  • I gave it a 70:30 that it was genuine. I thought about a response for a while, was actually pretty proud of what I came up with:

lumberjack[30min]:Its ok, Ide want you at your best anyways, Ill give you a second shot, hit me up if the disease isn't fatal.

  • I set up that I dont really care, am a fun positive guy, qualified kinda with the 'i want you at your best', and set up talking later ( I didnt actually expect her to call me).

HB7.5[3min]:I can see you're a positive thinker.. Thanks buddy.

so that was it for 4 days, then i called her Saturday, one week after we hooked up, she didnt pick up, and then didnt call back. I thought, fuck, she did flake originally...I waited another day and decided to go with a less investment heavy mode of communication, texting.

lumberjack: stop thinking about me.

hb75[15min]:lol right back atcha,,

lumberjack[35min]:you're alive?!..damnit

hb7.5[24min]:you wanted otherwise?? sheeshe..

lumberjack[25min]:well since you dont return phone calls I was atleast gonna have fun coffin shopping for you :p.

hb7.5[3min]:You called? oh look at that...you did. Whoops! haha sory my phone is kinda brain-dead when it comes to telling me about missed calls and voicemails. I'm sorry.

  • seemed like to many details to be real... wasent sure about this one, so I went pua defensive-

lumberjack[15min]-its okay, ive been rocking out instead of hanging out with you. Its been fun missing you, maybe not worth it though, who knows?

  • i thought this one was kinda weak, but I wanted to start qualifying her, give her a hard time about not taking initiative. didnt know how to do it. she didn't text back until the next morning (so ofcourse I thought I fucked up :) )

hb7.5[9am]: sorry I fell asleep last night. And idk whether to be offended by your statement sir, I am definately worth it :P

  • i was ecstatic at this, maybe my first time getting a girl to really qualify. I thought I should have been more specific, but whatever, its a start. I waited a while to text her back so she doesnt think I woke up and immediatly read/texted her back.

Lumberjack[5 hrs]: good to see you're confident about it! I started worrying that maybe your too shy for me

  • I tried to reward her for qualifying and push pull at the same time with the second sentence.

HB7.5[10min]what do you have a precedent for how outgoing girls have to be?

  • is this a shit test? Did I push to hard by trying to qualify her twice ( the is it worth it comment and the too shy comment)

lumberjack[13min]Youde have to get some wine in me before I start answering third date questions so soon...and i thought I was moving fast :P

  • I was unsure about this response as well. My intention was to get around the shit test and make it seem like shes hitting on me

hb&.5[35min]:well we've kind of gotten to second base, so I figured we could skip past some of the beginning questions..:P

  • my gut tells me this was a good response from her, why would she bring up the intimacy for the first time unless she's been getting interested agian? Another part of me thinks this is another shit test. Not sure where to go from here...So I took it as both, shit test and good response.I thought it was time to pull the trigger on setting up a meet again

lumberjack [25min]:you remembered :]. I dont mind the timing just the lack of face to face time. Whatever shall we do.

-this is also kinda weak i think. Should I have escalted with text flriting instead of going for a meet up? Im hoping shell propose we should meet up... But thats where this is at so far. That last text was 5 min ago so she hasn't responded yet, I just wanted some feedback on how its progressing so far, my perception and handling of things, etc.