This is going to be very condensed, I want to write nor read walls of text. Entire FR is spent at a filthy college bar that I frequent on Tuesdays. Arrived at around 9:45pm and stayed until the lights came on at 1:45am.
Met 2 local "community" guys here, both cool gents. It was one of their birthdays, so this was used as an opener by all of us pretty much all night. I'm not sure if I've even got the approaches in the right order, but w/e.
1.) Walked to bathroom alone and approached F/F/M 3-set on the way back. Apparently 2 were in a relationship and only one left was "HB3" large girl. She was cool though, we talked baseball, I # closed (she offered), and fled back to the bros. Other girl (who was actually hot) was catching ice in her mouth in the air, and so that's how I opened the set and how we got on the subject of catching/baseball. Will not be calling HB3 lol.
2.) Redhead HB7.5 - Ran into her and her friend at the back bar, I think I opened with "you look entertained", which I use all the time. She hooked okay, asked me "interview questions" and I challenged her to say something interesting. We kept talking, but I'd take her hand and she'd pull it away after awhile. I told her not to be rude and introduce me to her (unattractive) friend, etc. Good rapport, I let tension hang, but she wasn't reciprocating beyond suggestive looks, so I excused myself. Probably should have plowed through on this, as I think it would've gone somewhere and she was foxy. Oh well.
3.) "North Cracka-Lacky" - 2 girls in town from NC, maybe a 6 and a 6.5? Fun to talk to, but I let the other 2 guys run this as birthday boy had opened and I've had bad luck with out of town girls (totally counterintuitive, I know). They left early after awhile, but we had them talking about sexual stuff. Meh.
4.) Went outside for a break, ran into a HB7 Swedish girl who works at the embassy (I opened with "have a light?"). Very good rapport, # after the first 5 minutes. She had to leave with her friends, but I'm seeing her Friday night.
5.) 2 girls at bar (both ~6.5) I opened with birthday boy. One was receptive, another friend super hostile. We plowed just for lols, but blew out when other wing got out of bathroom and we went back to main bar. I think I opened with "how the fuck are you doing?".
6.) Blonde HB8-8.5 at bar, all alone. Wings had left at this point, girl had been left by her friends. PERFECT situation and I fucked it up. Bartender was feeding her shots. I escalated way way way to quick, going for a kiss after maybe 3 minutes of good conversation. Cie la vie. No opener, I just sat down next to her and looked at her, and she said hello.
EDIT: Other sets I'd left out. There were way more beyond these, just walk-throughs were we clawed a girl and said "IT'S MY FRIENDS' BIRTHDAY!". None were memorable.
7.) Italian girls in town for a few days. I hooked with one hot one, we were talking about vacationing in Spain because we've both been. Her English wasn't very good and I was probably going too quickly, but eventually her friends pulled her away and they all left the bar.
8.) Girls from Howard. I see these chicks every week, one of them is cute but I've never really pressed. I use them more for proof, as when they see me they all yell my name and come running at me. Hard to miss even in a loud crowded bar, and it looks great. This is why it's good to be regular at a place, IMO.
9.) Staff Girl. I've been going for this chick for a few weeks, but she has to stay way past closing and despite my getting some love when she's working, I've never successfully linked up with her outside of the bar. I won like 8 free happy hours in a row at this bar though, as she kept marking my name, which I think counts as an IOI. I've refused to ask her number as I'm sure every guy at the bar does, I just talk her up, ask availability, and wait for her to offer. Maybe the wrong tactic, but meh. Experiments.
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