So, basically your average AFC here and this is my first FR. Please be gentle yet critical! I discovered Seddit about two weeks ago, and just started reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss - currently on page 131 of 400something pages.

My gf of four years and I just broke up, so I felt the need to be noticed by women (not sure exactly why I feel this way).

I went out to a bar-club last night with a buddy and I started approaching every approachable-looking 2-set I saw.

1st set - bombed out. 2-set ended up being with a party, and they all just made me really nervous when they all were asking who I was, so I left like a chump.

2nd set - a 3-set of ladies in their early 30s shit-tested me and I failed hard. We started dancing with each other and when a song I didn't know came on, I said, "Am I the only one that doesn't know this song?!" and they said, "yeah. you're too young!" I didn't know what to say after that. I just looked at them with a sad puppy dog face.

3rd set - 2-set of HB9 and HB6. had a great conversation with the HB9 by doing dumb ESP test-type stuff and running personality evaluation-type stories learned from Neil Strauss. HB9 tries to include her friend because HB9 is "extremely intrigued," but I accidentally shut out HB6 by saying that it's too long of a story to set back up again. HB9 tells me she had a great time and leaves with her friend when her friend says she needs to go to the bathroom.

4th set - 2-set with HB9 and HB7. HB9 passes me and I pull her arm and ask her, "did you just pinch me?!" and she says, "no...but I wish I did." I kiss her on the cheek and she moves on. I see her later in the bar. We talk, I escalate kino and grab her ass - she rejects. We talk more. She tells me we should hang out sometime and gives me her phone number. I text her "be safe tonight ;]" when I leave the bar. No text back since yesterday.

Question 1: am I doing this whole FR thing right? Question 2: any tips on the HB9 that didn't text back?

Statement: THANK YOU SEDDIT FOR SUPPLYING ME WITH SKILLS I NEVER KNEW I COULD POSSESS!