Hey guys, I was reading Field Reports earlier and I found myself thinking "I wish I was good enough to write a field report" and realized that this isn't even what it's about, it's about sharing experiences and letting people see your success and failure and giving constructive criticism, so here goes.

BACKGROUND INFORMATION

I live in a little town in Sweden(legal drinking age: 18) with about 50k inhabitants and after living here for 18 years (I am 20 but lived in another city last year for university, why I moved back is not important) you basically have at least 50 mutual friends with everyone your age +- 2 years of age. This causes for some trouble in pickup as I have been social throughout "high school" and most people usually already have details about others (I find myself knowing a lot of people's name and what friends I have in common even before speaking to them) so first impressions are somewhat biased even before approaching.

The town also has but one night club and several awful bars. Obviously this makes the only place you want to go somewhat circlejerky. Enough about this, time for the actual FR.

FIELD REPORT

The plan for the evening was obviously heading for the only night club in town, which we will call CJ (circle jerk).

I invited one of my best friends who I will call Slick(20), another friend who I will call Rick(18), a girl we are friends with(HB5, 17yo), her friend (which turned out to be a HB8, apparently easy, 18yo) and Slick's friend who I will call Prick (because he's a prick, 20).

HB5, HB8 and Rick arrived around 7pm and I introduced myself to the HB8 with standard greetings by the door and directed them to where we were going to be. After about 20 minutes Slick showed up and we started drinking and listening to music, chatting and whatnot. After a while HB5 initiated a game of truth or dare, nothing interesting up til the point where it was my turn to ask, so I asked the HB8, who said dare, to show how she seduces the man which a bottle was pointing at after spun. She agreed and I spun it and it ended on me. She mounted me in my chair and started unbuttoning my shirt and kissing me on neck and chest and eventually we started to heavily make out (I don't know whether or not this was a good or bad mood, I have read that heavy make out sessions early on dissipates sexual tension between people and it made me unsure how to re-initiate afterwards).

After a while it started feeling odd since all the others were watching our "show", so we ended it and she went back to her seat. (Want constructive criticism and analysis)

About an hour later, Prick showed up while we were all finishing what was left of our drinks before we had to leave to make it for the free entrance (we are all unemployed currently).

As the others were making their way out of the house, I tidied up the place a bit before I joined them outside. Prick, who was unaware of precedent events, started walking with HB8, effectively blocking her off for other partners since she was leading her bike on the other side. I was somewhat disappointed as I was planning on taking things further with her to see if something could come out of it, and I was horny - but I decided to fuck it, I'll get my chances later at the club. It takes ~30 minutes to walk to town so we all walked together, but Prick, HB8 and Slick started falling behind more and more, so we waited for them to catch up. After walking another ten minutes we noticed HB8 and Prick were falling behind again and apparently they had decided to go to her place for shots before joining us at the club. Me and the others felt that if that was the case then we'll continue without them as they would have to pay the ~15$ entrance fee.

When we got there, HB5 couldn't get in because of her being underage so she went to her booty call instead (this was the backup plan for her anyways, so no sweat for us). Me, Slick and Rick entered the place. Mostly familiar faces, as this is the only place with some level of decency in town. We went to one of the bars and ordered a beer and I started saying hi to all the people I know, which takes about 15 minutes as I combined it with my round scouting the place.

About half an hour later, Prick and HB8 entered the club and we said hi to them. He was leading her around and since I'm not confident in destroying AMOGs nor have any interest of being jackass to him since he is a guy I hang out with regularly because of Slick, I didn't do anything at first to try and take her.

I started speaking to people I know, can't really remember much of who and what I said but basically just being social and having a good time.

I met Prick and HB8 in the stairs on my way up, I was beside HB8 while Prick was speaking to someone on the other side of him. I teased her by saying something in the lines of "What you did before, I felt it was a little half assed" to which she replied "You know I could do much better if I wanted to" or something. Worth mentioning was that she was very drunk at this time and couldn't stand straight by herself. Something led to another and I started making out with a her a little while Prick wasn't looking. She stopped suddenly and said something like "I can't do this, I'll regret it in the morning". I acted offended and asked her why she would regret me in the morning, while turning my body away as a IOD, to which she instantly started to say she was sorry and it wasn't like that at all and whatever. I didn't really care to much and couldn't be arsed with trying to take her from him.

They ended up leaving some minutes later and went to her place(she had thrown up when getting home, sent signals to the guy that she wanted sex, he had failed to notice the signs and just slept beside her. Waste of opportunity).

Later that evening I was talking to some girls, mostly people I already knew, dancing and having a good time. I walked by a HB6 I barely know and went in for a hug when she, to my surprise, started making out with me instead. I was confused but I ain't one to argue with a good thing so I went with it. After about a minute of this she stops and says "No, I can't do this, it's not right to [my ex-gf, who is in a relationship with someone else since 1½ year back; ex and HB6 is in the same class in high school]" this is when I became really confused and asked what she could possibly mean by this. She gave me no information to what that meant so I said something along the lines of "She's in a long term relationship AFAIK but okay, whatever" and was going to give her a hug before leaving, when she started kissing me again (what the fuck is up with this logic??) which I ended early as to not repeat what had just happened and excused myself.

Rest of the night consisted of me talking to some people, Slick was making out with some HB7 all night so not much to do there. Went home with Slick and Rick and following the HB7 along the way but she had toddlers back home so Slick couldn't come with her.

Post-night analysis

I am very new to actually analysing what went right or wrong, at least I made out with two girls and had a decent time, so overall it was a better night than usual. I definitely feel I can improve on so many levels, but I need help to work on what could be done better.

Please feel free to give me criticism of any kind, I am here to learn and I can't learn if I am not told what is right or wrong.