be kind, compassionate and authentic.

when each pulse of your heart is aligned with what you believe you have nothing to fear.

seductive energy isn’t about what you say, rather how you say.

i’ll give examples.

the other night i was out in town with two buddies. We were strolling around town having fun and laughing.

We ran into a group of girls and my friend told me to talk to them.

So i walked towards them raised my hand like i was about to say something locked eyes with one of the 4 girls and we literally just had a staring contest. After about a minute we broke character and started to talk while including everyone in the group. I later introduced my friends and we pulled them

but the funny thing is i didn’t even say a word in the begging here’s a break down.

  1. I knew that it will either go well or bad and i accepted both possible scenarios with no emotional attachment.

  2. I had a fun, positive, and genuine tone/ body language

  3. I was direct and didn’t try to beat around the bush or hide anything

We are all just humans trying to figure shit out so be easy going and don’t take things too seriously.

so to circle back on the main topic when you are comfortable in your own skin and realize that your energy is more significant than your words. You can get away with saying a lot of shit