Hello I have this tale to tell as both a cautionary tale about dating or seduction and also I have had some vets on here give good general life advice so I would love some help. First I went around picking up improving my skills and "game" appearance etc. I did well for myself many dates and hook ups many ons fwb and all within the year and a half. Than I started focusing on my social life more perfoming my poetry and music making new friends etc. At this time I met her. She was amazing. At first I was still smashing others but we settled in. However I cheated once and then realized after having sex with a 20 year old that I loved my gf. I asked about open relationship but it just hurt her feelings. Anyways I did not talk to her when I was upset for a week or so and we ended up breaking up. I was crushed. Worse than when my 5 year relationship ended worse than when my daughter mom and I split etc. She was the greatest girl. Since then here's my story the 1st week or so I tried flowers letters and poems (I'm a poet) it didn't work. Everytime I would try to leave her alone she would text "I miss you" "love you" etc. Then she told me on Christmas she fucked her other ex and we are done forever. Then on new years she text me she's "forever grateful for me" Then I ask her to be back with me on an email 5 days later and she says to never talk to her again. Five days later she sees my performance on INSTA and tells me you're doing amazing. The next day asks me for the poem and talks to mw for 2 hours. Since then she has called me nearly every day and texted me every day. So two days ago I ask her to go out and chill and she doesn't respond. Please help advise if u know about getting an ex back.
Or have advice. I am obviously not happy and other women are of no interest to me currently. I literally turn them down. Remember if u find a great one turn the player shit off or u could end up in my pain