I've been mostly single for about 2 years now with a girl here and there in the mean time but pretty spaced out. I want to meet new girls but I seem to have a really hard time breaking my precieved social barrier of going up to someone I don't know and opening up an interesting conversation. I tell myself all the time that I shouldn't worry about meeting new people but it seems engrained in my very nature to be an automatic response. Also I hardly ever go to bars (I'm not much of a drinker) and I don't really know where any good spots with single young women are. Furthermore most of my friends are basically the same way to getting one of them to wingman with me may be like pulling teeth.

I'm just looking for some advice. Anything you guys got helps. If you have any questions please feel free.