Grrr. Frustrated.

meeks · 2010-01-11T17:41:47+00:00

I'll probably get downmodded for saying this but: 9's/10's often hold out for hot smart guys with money. Obviously this can be overcome with skills but it really makes achieving that last level more difficult. Also, if you aren't going to clubs/bars you are likely to see less 9/10's on average and therefore have less chances to interact with them.

I once sat down with an internet millionare in the VIP area of Skybar on the sunset strip. I talked to him awhile about picking up 10's and he told me that money did make a huge difference. He was a great looking guy had pretty good skills, but he said obviously once he got rich he was finally able to get the 10's. Girls would notice things like his expensive watch and shoes which are external displays of wealth that cue the 10's. When a 10 has any choice of guy they want, they can pick the hot guy with the $20,000 watch. So I would say that just understand what you are up against because you level of skill has to improve dramatically to compete in that arena. Of course working on your own life and generating more money for yourself is also a skill in it's own right.

I would say, be content with 8's and randomly bumping into the occasional 10 here and there. Work on your career and life to where you are making more money. Then the 10's will come. I doubt reading any more Brad P. and Gunwitch is going to make you start landing 10s regularly.

EthicalReasoning · 2010-01-13T00:16:49+00:00

meeks is definitely correct that many of the most attractive women are holding out for very attractive men or those with money or both. if you're in southern california or another overtly wealthy region, this is brutally true, with money, cars, and status symbols running the show with mainstream 'hot' girls.

if you aren't in the above category but you're trying to pull the women that only go for rich men, there's several options, the most effective being: lie about it. feign wealth or feign significant potential for future wealth. you're in law school, youre in med school, you're a writer for some shitty WB network show, you own a business, you're a professional surfer, you're on the UCLA basketball team but you injured your ankle, you're driving this shitty ford taurus because you just got in a wreck in your mercedes and it's at the bodyshop, you're staying in this crappy apartment because your condo is being remodeled (point out a random building downtown), whatever you say doesnt matter just make it something virtually impossible to verify anytime soon(which is just about anything). don't feel about about lying to the hottest chicks to attract them, women lie constantly: they wear makeup, pushup bras, get boob jobs, botox, and lie through their teeth about who they are and what they do to try and find and land the most attractive men. there's massive amounts of dishonesty in dating, if you're just looking to hookup casually and bang chicks, participate in the bullshit. as long as you can talk about it and you sound confident, it's believable.

PrincessCake · 2010-01-13T11:32:56+00:00

I'm interested in how you built up your inner game.

Title	Grrr. Frustrated.
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Upvotes	8
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Date	January 11, 2010 2:25 PM UTC (16 years ago)
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