In terms of relationships. Been seeing a girl for about a year now - pretty comfortable with each other. We've had no - read none, zilch - arguments, or even tension.

Andd thennnnn I read this:

'Passion isn't about having sex or being intimate, it's about making her crave sex and intimacy. That means you tease her, you purposely withhold intimacy sometimes, you don't put up with bullshit, you be dominant. You argue with her. The best relationships have more tension (and makeup sex is the best sex)- if there's no tension, there's no consequent release of that tension. In other words, there's no attraction, just comfort. Comfort is overrated.' (by frogma on some old thread).

...Hvae I been doing it wrong?