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[–]LeSultanduSwing 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
she's in love and very very shy for a 23-24 years old girl. It's a great opportunity don't waste it. Just go on a date with her eat some food. In what concerns the date never speak about yourself too much always speak about her and how great she is ( as a friend of course). You can speak about yourself a little only if she's asking questions and if she's asking questions it's that she's interested and want to know more about you
[–]RackPullsAboveTheKne 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have no idea how approach her, she is either with one of her clients working out or at the entrance with the other pts and stuff :(
[–]Crazy_Alakazam 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Make small talk,
find a common interest (as simple as you both like coffee)
and based on that ask her out(wanna grab a coffee sometime later)
Probe...don't try to understand.
[–]RackPullsAboveTheKne 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ok then I guess im gonna try to muster the courage to do it and try to ask her out one of these days
[–]Crazy_Alakazam 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No no no, don't ask her out ONE DAY.
And you don't need courage to get to know another person. The thing people like to do most is talk about their life. Just ask and give an honest ear, you'd be surprised how easily they open up to you.
To elaborate on my previous comment:
SMILE ( It shows you have some basic interest in knowing her).Just keep chatting when you meet here, tease her a bit (Keep it FUN), ask what she does on weekends, tell her what you like to do (Important: ADD VALUE to the conversation), there will be at least a thing in common. Use that and ask her if she wants to hang out with you for that.
All this should take like 2-3 interactions. Incase you like her(based on your interactions), DON'T WAIT TOO LONG to ask her out.
If you just ask her out, suddenly out of the blue (no good intentions previously), things may get dicey.
Initially treat her as a friend and if you find the connection, ask her out for an activity or coffee.
I am no pickup artist, just giving points from a great video about it and what I observe at the gym. https://youtu.be/Yzjj5SwI48Q
All the best mate. Life is too short for regrets. Give it your best and make the best of what you get. Keep us posted.
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