Help my Texting Game (Examples)

MasterOfPuppetsX · 2014-09-01T07:29:37+00:00

First off, many regulars on this sub are very anti-text game, they prefer using it only as a means for setting up a meet up. That being said, this seems like a pretty extended convo for someone who didn't even remember your name.

I think after "Her: Hahaha the burning question. I want to say mark but I don't think that is right. I remembered it all night tho! Then the night faded away haaaa", you should've said something more along the lines of "yeah everyone was pretty wasted haha" and just continued into setting up a meet up. I feel like after that you're just teasing her, "tell me what you do remember", as if your impression at this point is that she was some drunk girl who was acting like a buffoon. No rapport was built other than allowing her to match a name to your blurry face from the other night at the bar.

If I were in your position here, I would've cut to the chase rather quickly, attempting to create a meet ASAP. Example:

You: "Hahaha we were all pretty messed up. This was friday right lol?**" (I think asking for confirmation on the day is a little stiff, you both know it was Friday, the only really good way to say that is by jokingly confirming it as a result of drunkenness which doesn't work as well via text.)

Her: Yuuup Friday at x place I know that much!

You: Well it was a fun night from what I remember so we should meet up again sometime haha. Let's get coffee Tuesday at x time to try and piece together that night."

This is an alternative to that situation. The "so we should meet up again sometime haha." is a debatable message that could kill your whole game so be careful with that.

Take this a lesson, there are no failures in this business unless you do something truly bad, everything you do here helps you in the long run. When you re-engage, I think you should wait 1-2 days, then initiate and get a date set-up as soon as you possibly can, telling her where and when and not asking when she's free. You're in charge.

This is just my opinion and I'm only trying to lead a helping hand, sorry if I seem like a jerk for any reason. If you have any questions about what I said or if I butchered any explanations feel free to reply and I'll do the best I can.

Good luck!

teachbirds2fly · 2014-09-03T00:02:46+00:00

Why not just ask her to grab a drink/coffee sometime? Do it somewhere before you start doing the math.

This is the way I see it there are two options with all these random girls you meet/numbers added to phone:

1) Chat a little, flirt a little it fades out never speak again.

2) Take a chance ask her if she wants to grab a drink sometime

That's it. If you look at the choices like that it's pretty obvious that even if the second one doesn't pan out you're no worse off than if you did nothing.

2014-09-01T06:23:58+00:00

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Title	Help my Texting Game (Examples)
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Date	September 1, 2014 5:15 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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