How do I be friendly without being beta?

2012-07-14T19:59:09+00:00

Be an alpha just show no interest and create no sexual tension.

holuh · 2012-07-14T20:18:07+00:00

Treat em like one of the guys

CoolJazzGuy · 2012-07-14T20:53:50+00:00

Don't be afraid to call them out on something that the do or say. Be teasing, but avoid sexual undertones. Even if you have no interest in hooking up with them, you can still create attraction, just platonic attraction.

weezyfGRADY · 2012-07-14T21:08:01+00:00

Being alpha is a life style, there is no on/off switch.

2012-07-17T01:00:04+00:00

"but I don't want come off as too beta because I'm not trying to pick them up" -> This will likely not be the case... the most beta thing you can do is try hard. Not trying will most definitely land you normal guy territory at the very least.

"How do I keep a balance between being alpha and friendly at the same time?" -> You can start by not giving a flying fuck about what these chicks think of you.

Title	How do I be friendly without being beta?
Author	tdub13
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	July 14, 2012 7:42 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/wk78p/how_do_i_be_friendly_without_being_beta/
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