How do I "break the ice" with her?

ELite_Predator28 · 2015-01-20T03:21:53+00:00

Here you go OP:

SenorHatorade · 2015-01-20T02:57:49+00:00

There's no reason to apologize for contacting her. There's seriously only a handful of things a man should apologize for and that isn't one of them.

Try to revert from telling her your friends aren't responding. That lowers your status.

From here, don't send another message unless she responds. Sending two messages in a row always conveys "talk to me!".

Engage her at school. You have two classes. That's two times in one day you can talk.

If you want to break the ice, then break the ice. It doesn't have to be a cute line, believe me. "Hey, (her name)". That's literally all you need to talk to somebody. Work from there.

You'll be fine, man.

skahler · 2015-01-20T03:44:14+00:00

Stay away from FB Messenger. It's like taking someone on a date to Walmart.

Ok now - start talking to your friends a lot. Do some shit. Get comfortable, do something fun. When you talk to her, you want it to be just a side-hug extension of your current friend base. You're extending social energy to her, essentially offering her a "taste" of what you have.

Also you really shot yourself in the foot telling her your friends wouldn't respond. NEVER do that. Mega status lowering. You can make up for this when she sees that you actually have friends. But you definitely should recover from that mistake.

If you don't have friends, get them. Get involved in an organization, do SOMETHING where there are people you get along with around you. Make sure these people aren't lame. If they are, she will think you're lame.

So start there, and you should be fine. Talking to girls is easy when you talk to your friends - and if she's off putting, then she either thinks you have cooties or has someone else in mind she thinks has higher status than you.

Build your legacy. Start from the ground up, and make your way up the ladder.

AnEndlessDream · 2015-01-20T05:27:46+00:00

If you can see her in person then do that. Don't hide behind FB, that is a buffer. Instead be alpha and say Hi to her, and introduce yourself.

If you want to do something, then do it.

Also don't say sorry for no reason, that makes her seem like some kind of queen. You should be the prize, not her. You miss every shot that you don't take so just go and talk to her.

tulio2 · 2015-01-20T17:50:37+00:00

"sorry for bothering you" that is such a great line... always appear weak and apologetic for even existing. women eat that shit up. now all you gotta do is wait about six months and she'll probably come crawling over to your house not wearing panties. well played my friend... well played.

Title	How do I "break the ice" with her?
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Date	January 20, 2015 2:50 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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