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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's good to touch on high points of conversation. Like when you're making a point, or laughing, or she says something super interesting, respond verbally, then at the same time touch her.
Besides the elbow area, the stomach is super intimate. let's say she says something silly, and you tease her for it, tap her with the back of your hand on her stomach like your knocking on a door (BUT LIGHTLY, obviously). Just one tap, then pull back. If she seems as giddy/perky as before or even MORE so, then she likes you. She's okay with intimate touch.
Then, I'd try touching her legs. I save this for when I'm talking about something and make a very pivotal point in the talk, I lean in, make a super exagerrated face, and then squeeze her thigh. I've had girls tell me that the first time I did that was the moment they decided to fuck me. Just place your hand on her thigh, squeeze as you make your point (note: don't look at your hand as you do it, it's supposed to be noticed but unnoticed at the same time), then pull back.
If she's cool with that, at some point, simply lay your hand on her leg. If she let's it stay and she seems comfortable or even MORE comfortable after, she's super into you. She's saying, "I'm okay with you doing that." Girls will either tell you they're uncomfortable or LOOK uncomfortable if they don't like something.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What if the girl gives no reaction to kino, positive or negative?
[–]ferncaz95 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What do you do if she's uncomfortable early on? Do you keep the conversation going but try to end it and move to someone else?
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