First thing's first. WHERE do you find her?

The most common place for couples to meet is through friends. I think we all know that. So let's say you don't have a dense social circle. What do you do then? Well good sir, this is where having a pair of balls comes in handy. For you to meet a girl outside of your social circle, and turn her into your girlfriend, you have a lot of work to do.

#1 You need to go out.

Bars and clubs are a great place to meet girls. Why? Because chicks like going out. Go to where the girls are.

#2 Get her attention.

Once you're out, you're going to have to get a conversation going with her. She's not going to become your girlfriend over night.

#3 Make her attracted to you.

You need to demonstrate why she should be interested in you. Do you have confidence? Do you have a good job? Are your friends cool? Is it a good move for her to become involved with you? I teach my students on my 1 on 1 Infield Sessions how to do this.

#4 Have her prove herself to you.

After she's interested in you. Now it's time to become interested in her. Why should you be involved with her? Doe's she like the same things you do? Is there something specific she does that you really like? This is where she need to start winning YOU over. Tenmagnet http://www.tenmagnet.com/ has a good post on this - http://www.theattractionforums.com/general-discussion/172522-mission-change-your-game-now-qualification.html

#5 Find common ground and interests.

This is where the conversation becomes more casual. Where you're just getting to know each other with no pressure. You both know that you like each other. Now it's time to find out where she's from and what her story is etc.

#6 Find out if she's good in bed BEFORE you make her your girlfriend.

Sex is a big part of a healthy relationship. Maybe you guy's connected on all kind off cool stuff. But if the sex isn't what you thought it would be, don't sell yourself short. Keep going out meeting girls until you find one you click with on different levels. Emotionally and sexually.

#7 Start committing more time towards her slowly.

If things work out in the bedroom, and she's still a cool chick after the fact. The last thing you want to do is scare her away. Let her know you like her, but don't smother her with 10 texts a day. You had a good life before she was there. There is no reason to start acting all needy. Make plans with her for later in the week, and slowly start seeing her more often.

8 You should have a girlfriend at this point.

After all that. You should be on the right path to getting a girlfriend. If this seems to complicated for you. Or you're having a hard time just doing step #1. Get in touch with me. This is what I do in my spare time. I like helping guys meet girls.

What ever your level. I can help.

Mr--Clean

Andrew (from http://www.andrewsapproachcoaching.com/)

Q: What step do you find most difficult?