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[–]Lambdal7 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Um, don't cheat on your girlfriend.
You can get good all the way you want, but once you tell a girl you're in a relationship with her, you are in a relationship with her.
Cheating on her is just being a huge asshole. If you want to keep gaming, tell your girl you're not looking for a relationship right now.
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
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no matter how I appear on the outside, my thoughts on the inside are attractive.
I don't know too many people who would characterize dishonesty as attractive. I say that without judgement. I have been in a place much like where you are now. I ended up hating myself and often, I didn't like the women I slept with, either.
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did you ever noticed how a man can be just what a woman needs as much as woman can be exactly what a man needs?
Dangerous habit to fall into, being that man for too many women. It's too easy to lose who you are, as that can change to be exactly what the next woman needs, making your core meaningless in its malleability.
This is where I question how "good" it really is. Is it good to be proficient at losing who you are, all in pursuit of whatever validation or achievement you feel from sleeping with another new person? It's never enough. I know. And every event whittles a little piece of you away, doesn't it?
Point blank, you aren't "good." In this scenario, your self-worth is precarious: it's not in your hands, it's dependant on whether you can keep this ball rolling.
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But then I get a phone call and its my girlfriend.
Pretty safe bet that your behavior isn't exactly what SHE wants.
Is there a point in having a relationship with a girl who apparently thinks she's in a serious relationship, when she's actually dating someone who wants casual encounters but can't be direct about it? I mean, if you want to sleep around, that's fine, obviously. But why drag around the extra drama of a ticking-time-bomb of a relationship like this?
[–]recipricating 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
some other guy posted and deleted his comment. My reply is the same. Where is the sense of humor??
there was a bird that didn't know how to fly, to the point where he forgot. His buddy saw him and he did something smart. He started having a little fun. they went to the musical part of the forest, and he started telling jokes and dancing. And all that weight inside of the bird's head started to get lighter and lighter until he was light enough to lift himself off the ground with his own wings and fly like he was made to.
anyway, I've read my story to my own girlfriend she laughed. I'm willing to bet if you read this to a girl she would laugh too. It won't be appreciated how amazing and fun this material can be to use it to get in deeper with her, but isn't that our prime directive?
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If the little tag at the end was meant to say, "I made up the whole thing for the lolz," then you've wasted everyone's time.
This isn't /r/writingprompts.
[–]recipricating 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or it's something we can all relate to. I liked your points tho they made a lot of sense so far
[–]Moderatorrecyclablebanthas 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or it's something we can all relate to.
Well, it's something a few of us here can relate to. The newbs, maybe not quite yet. To them, it's going to be more like humble-brag.
I liked your points tho they made a lot of sense so far
As long as you're not really having the sort of crisis that this sort of post usually implies. It's not a fun place to be.
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