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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
I don’t see why not. Specially since you usually text her most days and you didn’t all day yesterday.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t it make me look obsessive?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think so. What would make you look that way is if you’d already texted her several times and she has yet to respond....then she just probably won’t. I think she either might just be busy or might just be waiting on a text from you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I thought so during last week where she didn’t answer me for six hours when we still chatted via instagram, apparently she didn’t have notifications on and when I asked her number she explained this thing with a vocal message and got all giggly, since we use whatsapp she has always responded
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t read into it too much, literally anything could be going on. Just shoot her a message and say hey and find something to occupy yourself to pass the time. If she never responds, oh well.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Nah I don’t see why she shouldn’t at this point she would have already ghosted me.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Right, so there should be no problem. But she might be thinking the same thing as you. “Am I coming off obsessive?” “Should I text him and say hey?” Etc. Someone has to lead and if she reached out and asked a question like this, I’m sure she has someone telling her these same things. But someone has to begin the conversation.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She doesn’t seem like someone who wants to lead. Our date was a bit stiff because we were not comfortable with each other due to being the first time we saw each other. We laughed a lot, kept talking and she told me that she had noticed me on the bus some years ago tells me she has at-least that she has some interest. Also she agreed on a second date
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You know what. Stop looking for every reason to not text her. Because from not knowing either of you from dirt it sounds like you should text her. So do you want to text her or not is the REAL question here.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah we got similar personalities and I find her hot
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I don’t know what type of meme she likes yet. I would still prefer normal messages
[–][deleted] 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Idk about the call but the “i don’t usually ask girls out this early”is phenomenal imo
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I texted her and she answered
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We’ve already been on a date. We’ve already seen each other
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Date is already set
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m getting conflicting answers. I followed what the majority told me
[–]Okonoe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think you should text her my ex would make me sad if he didn’t text me all day kinda made me think he didn’t put in any effort.
I did it. She’s answering
[–]Okonoe 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s good 😊
[–]thelittleshark12 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah absolutely you MUST text her today to make her feel safe about the date and comfirm that she s always in , be smart
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