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[–]sireltonjonko 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Is it a playful hit? Or is she trying to hurt you?
[–]casanova1357[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
playful haha, everything we do is playful like i’ll take her phone and she’ll wrestle me to get it back
[–]sireltonjonko 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Seems to me that she’s into you dude
[–]casanova1357[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How should I reply tho? Bc sometimes it just seems she shuts what i’m doing down. Am I being too forward?
[–]casanova1357[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’m a noob here but I’ve been told girls were into me and I’ve blown so many opportunities and waited it out too long so I just want to be free from that lol
[–]sireltonjonko 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oooh boy then I’m really not the right person to ask hahaha. Just lost a girl I was dating on and off for like 6 months because I kept blowing opportunities and staying to distant.
Just try to feel her vibe, if she’s being playful, you can keep doing what you were doing. If she really doesn’t like it just stop it. And if you really want to know, just ask her how she feels, or tell her how you feel about her
[–]casanova1357[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ok thanks i’ll try to match her vibe, i’m just too pussy to make the move
[–]sireltonjonko 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was too, trust me, you’ll regret it if you never try
[–]Altwolf89 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You won't know until you try, for me being called bruh is a huge turn off, but for some girls it's normal. If she's physically touching you, in this case the playful hitting, that's a neg of affection meaning she's comfortable doing it. I would say go for it and see what happens.
Nothing is worse than not trying and always wondering.
Ok I see but how can I respond, here’s an example: A: Youre lucky you’re cute bc I’d beat your ass B: Bruh ur gay A: gay for you bc ur a dude B: Fuck u A: do it B: Oh goddddd A: lol it’s too easy you’re setting yourself up, it’s as if... B: What no stop get out A: Ok wel I gotta work on a spreadsheet B: Okay good luck spreading this sheets A: I have no problem spreading the sheet B: Gross
[–]Altwolf89 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Idk, just try something in person like, "does this make you as turned on as me? Or is that just me?" "Hypothetically let's say we get naked and fuck, hypothetically, what's your favorite position?" It has to turn sexual somehow with intent, not just jokes.
[–]casanova1357[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s my problem I always joke around and I never have the balls to take initiative. There had been times where our faces were so close and i was touching her thigh and I was like no way she’s a friend. Also another girl who kicked a guy out so that I could sit next to her... totally blew it but I’m actually gonna see that girl soon to pickup a vape, any advice for that?
[–]Altwolf89 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would t think there's anything further than just picking up a vape lol, but while you're there, you could try to see if she wants to cook something together or something. IDK
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