So I went over to this girls house for wine and slayed her. I had good banter and got along well with her. I texted her the next day a joke and then stopped responding. How long after is it ok to ask to do something with a girl after you hookup? Are you supposed to wait for them to ask? Is it normal to just ask if they are free next week for wine or something?

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Most of the time, I slay the girl within the first hour of meeting them, then get ghosted or they dont want to hangout again. I have no issue pulling from bars, or slaying fast I just never keep them. Ive never had a second date in my life I dont think tbh... what do you guys do?