How to get her to have sex with me

johnnyboyfart · 2015-05-21T17:52:34+00:00

have her pick you up from your house, that way she'll have to drop you off, then you can offer her to come up and see your place. then you get both talk, let the convo get sexual and make your move. kiss her for about 15 mins, maybe gently touch her, squeeze her boobs, kiss her neck, the more you do the more she'll get invested in the moment and then you can pull you cock out. the rest you should know what to do lol.

PaizuriLover · 2015-05-21T18:23:43+00:00

If this is a first date, don't try to get into her pants! Sheesh. Slow down, buddy!

Instead of trying to have sex with her, enjoy the date, be yourself, make her laugh, engage her with conversation (it doesn't matter what, you guys are just enjoying each others company and getting to know one another), and if you are vibing with her, move in for a kiss. If she responds favorably to the kiss, awesome!

Don't go all hamburglar on her and start pawing at every soft point on her body. Focus on having a fun time with your date, and any sexual tension that is built up over the course of the evening will work itself out naturally.

Also, try and read her body language. Everybody is different, of course, but try to get a feel for how into you she is. Any flirting, touching, physical barrier breaking things on her part is a good sign. Not so much a good sign for sex, but a good sign that she likes you.

Don't rush it!

Again, just try and have fun with your date first!

EDIT:

Talking about sex, and actually having sex aren't the same thing. A long time ago, I was flirting hardcore with this girl. LOTS of sexual tension. Eventually, we started making out (alcohol was involved), things got hot and heavy, I slipped my hands down her pants and started fingering her, but as I moved to unbutton her pants for some sexin' she stopped me. She wasn't ready to go that far yet. It was cool, and we continued making out and after a few more dates, we finally had sex.

johnnyboyfart · 2015-05-21T17:52:50+00:00

have her pick you up from your house, that way she'll have to drop you off, then you can offer her to come up and see your place. then you get both talk, let the convo get sexual and make your move. kiss her for about 15 mins, maybe gently touch her, squeeze her boobs, kiss her neck, the more you do the more she'll get invested in the moment and then you can pull you cock out. the rest you should know what to do lol.

EbNinja · 2015-05-21T18:12:59+00:00

Hooookay. How about some more background info? (These questions aren't all super necessary, but I'm just trying to build a foundation from which to dispense some good advice.)

How long have you two known each other? Have you gone on more than one date? Have you talked about sex with each other? Do you want a one night stand with this girl; something a little longer, but still short term; or a long term thing? Is this your first time having sex? Is this her first time? Are both of you old enough, legally speaking? What movie are you seeing? Have you been flirting with her previously?

Title	How to get her to have sex with me
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Comments	8
Date	May 21, 2015 5:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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